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Tips for Flirting

RogerR — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 11:16:49 +0000

When you’re talking to a girl and want to make her attracted, it’s important to know how to create sexual tension. This is very important if you want to know how to attract women. Without it, you don’t have much of a chance to spark the kind of interest that’s necessary to get her number, go on a date OR make her want to know you better. To help you out, let me give you THREE quick tips for flirting that’ll help you quickly enhance any flirty conversation.

#1- Use Body Language
It’s commonly said that 90% of what we say is done through our body language. When flirting with a woman, your non-verbal communication needs to tell women that you’re a high status male that is comfortable in a social situation. Furthermore, ALL your gestures, movements, and actions should subtly demonstrate a confident and charming attitude.

#2- Tease and Use Humor
A great tip for flirting is to TEASE every time you’re talking to a woman. Now this is something that a lot of men get wrong. When using humor in a conversation, you want to joke around in a manner that IS teasing her, but also making her laugh at the same time. It’s pretty similar to the “assumed familiarity” you would show around your friends. By interjecting humor into a conversation, you’re avoiding the standard, awkward conversation that most guys attempt when they’re first meet a girl.

#3- Be Fun
The final element to flirting with a woman is to be fun. Many men forget that talking to a girl for the first time should be ENJOYABLE. Instead of having fun, a lot of guys ask “interview-like” questions and come across as a stuffy and boring.
When you’re flirting with a girl, you want talk about topics that interest you, participate in flirty games, and playfully banter. Just remember that it’s much easier to attract a woman if she’s laughing and having fun around you.
So the next time you’re talking to a woman, try to use ALL 3 of the tips for flirting that I discussed in this article. You’ll find that it’s pretty easy to quickly create a fun, sexual vibe that can quickly make her attracted!

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The Extraordinary Magic of Self Love

Roger — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:54:49 +0000

This article is by Margot Zaher and Jafree Ozwald (Source: Cultivate Life Ezine)

"Love gives you the first insight into eternity.
Love is the only experience that transcends time.
That's why lovers are not afraid of death.
Love knows no death." --Osho

How often do you have unconditional love and deep acceptance for yourself just they way you are? Many of us get wrapped up in looking for approval, appreciation, acceptance and love from the outer world, and don't realize that there is a vast infinite supply of it already within. Self love is one of the most powerful habits and healing gifts that you can learn to give yourself. You are truly the only one who can be there 100% for you, and accept who you are no matter what happens in your life. While other people may have a deep appreciation for you, only you have the power to let in their love and feel it inside. The interesting thing is that you are only able to feel another person's love for you when self love is present in your life. By loving yourself, you allow in love from "outside" yourself.

"Appreciation of others and the appreciation of your self is the closest vibrational match
to your Source Energy of anything that we've ever witnessed anywhere." ~Abraham-Hicks

When you activate the habit of letting in deeper feelings of self acceptance and self love, the world becomes a truly magical place. By bathing in the vibration of love, you actually experience the entire world from a softer more empowered perspective. The mundane becomes sacred, and everyone you meet feels deeply connected with the Divine. The simplest of experiences you have each day become doorways to the Divine. There is a higher awareness in you of a natural effortless connection with your Divine Essence. This helps you to receive the most loving relationships, abundant wealth, peak health, and most satisfying career in your life!

One of the magical aspects of practicing Self Love is that it becomes super easy to manifest anything you want into your life. The vibration of love is the foundation for manifesting the highest levels of success in this material world. When you completely love and accept all aspects of yourself, you send out such a strong energetic vibration into the Universe that you become a massive manifesting magnet! You'll experience that everyone and everything around you simply wants more of whatever you've got! Even if someone just receives one brief glance flowing from this deeper self loving feeling inside, they can be intimately impacted for the rest of their life.

The energy of love physically vibrates at a much higher frequency than any other emotion we can choose. Those lower vibrational feelings such as fear, greed, lack, impatience, or frustration only block you from manifesting everything your heart desires. Through increased levels of Self love you will naturally shift the vibration within your mind-body, transforming yourself into a powerful Source of magnetic energy that attracts those divine experiences, relationships, and financial opportunities into your life! We've found that the more love you shower onto yourself, the more the Universe showers its abundance of every kind onto you.

"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe,
deserve your love and affection." --Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)

The people who don't make loving themselves a priority in their day are usually caught in a belief that loving yourself is selfish and egotistical. This type of self love we're referring to is not egocentric, yet one that truly goes beyond the ego and can heal every needy, wounded, angry, prideful part inside you. This true self love is more heart-centered, and is about moving through those feelings of being a separate needy ego. It's about finding that direct connection to the infinite source at the very core of your being.

Discovering this true Self Love is like believing you were the moon, who needed light and warmth from others on the outside, so that you could reflect that energy back to everyone. Then one day you realized that this love is not coming from outside you, but inside, and that you are truly the Sun who is always radiating, and shining its light onto everyone and everything. When you turn your attention to WHERE the source of love is right now, you simply find out that you were always the Sun and forever will be this brilliant loving light.

"If the light is in one room, the only way to light up the other room is to open the door.
The only way to discover new things is to open your mind." --Allen Steble

What's even more interesting about loving yourself is the physical impact it has on your health. The vibration of love has also been scientifically proven to alter the shape and structure of actual water molecules. Since your physical body is made up of more than 70% water, it is continuously impacted by the vibrations of negative or positive words you send into it. According to many scientific studies done on water molecules, your physical body is directly affected by the words, sounds and thoughts it is exposed to. When you send your body loving thoughts and energy, each cell in your body actually relaxes and takes on a healthier more powerful configuration. It has also been proven that strong states of Self love boost the immune system in our body, allowing us to more effectively fight off invading micro-organisms and viruses.

"Love is letting go of fear." --Gerald Jampolsky

You may equate imbuing your body-mind with Self love like putting high performance rocket fuel into your body's engine. It supports the entire organism in running more smoothly and operating at a peak state of health and well-being. Self love will literally create a physical healing in the body. The more loving energy you send towards yourself and towards each cell in your body, the healthier you will be and the more energy you will have.
--Margot Zaher and Jafree Ozwald

Taking Time for Yourself in a Relationship

Roger — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:28:19 +0000

The following article is by John Gray (Source: Your Achievement Ezine)

We have all heard this advice before. No matter how wonderful togetherness feels in a relationship, it is still crucial for partners to take time for themselves. There is simply no way that a man or a woman can fulfill all of their partner's needs; it's just impossible to do. Too often people will give up a favorite hobby, sport or pastime in the beginning of a relationship in order to devote more time and energy to making the relationship work. But, what happens down the road when one or both partners realize that they are terribly out of balance and not taking time for themselves? Relationship stress, miscommunication, or worse: resentment and emotional pain can result.

It is healthy to have different interests. In fact, giving up our own interests and the little things that we do to nurture ourselves when a relationship starts will eventually lead to resentment down the road.

It's important for both partners to value quality relaxation time. There is absolutely no need to feel guilty about spending time alone. Independence is good for both men and women, no matter how close they may be in the relationship. Typically, when one partner actively takes some alone time, their partner is encouraged to do the same.

How our differences compliment each other:
Just as men and women have different needs in a relationship, they also have different reasons for needing time to themselves. Too much togetherness usually results in partners expecting too much from each other. Women may tend to smother their mates, while men may seem cold and uncaring. It is healthy for each partner to take time out to explore his or her individual interests.

What Men Need:
Men need to periodically pull away. Remember that men are like rubber bands. It is his natural cycle to get close, pull away, and get close again. It is important for men to fulfill their need for independence. Men automatically alternate between needing intimacy and autonomy. Give a man his space and he will be a better, more attentive, partner. When a man gets too close and doesn't pull away, he often experiences increased moodiness, irritability, passivity, and defensiveness.

Also, when a man is in his cave, he wants to be left alone. He is working out his problems and frustrations by either doing something alone, like reading the paper or watching TV, or doing something active with his male friends.

Most men are happy when their mates do something fun for themselves at these times. It means that she is not sitting around waiting for him to come out of the cave. He will come out ready to talk and be intimate again, and she will have curbed her frustrations by being good to herself and having some fun.

What Women Need:
It is good for a woman's self esteem to take care of herself. She can get wrapped up in taking care of her family and forget how much she needs to nurture herself. Particularly when a man is off in his cave, she can enjoy the time alone to go shopping, work in her garden, go to a class at the gym, or simply languish in the simple pleasure of soaking in a hot bath with a glass of wine.

It is especially important for a woman to cultivate relationships with other women. Women need to talk about what's happening in their lives. On Venus, this is an important part of relationship building. Since this is not the case on Mars, it is wonderful for a woman to get together with her girlfriends so that they can talk about, and listen to, each other's problems, without judgment or offering unsolicited advice.

Couples can even plan these separate times apart. For instance, Tuesday could be his poker night with the boys, and Thursday her night for dinner and a movie with her girlfriends. Both partners will not only appreciate the time to do the things that make them feel good, but will come back feeling renewed and excited to be in such a healthy, well-balanced relationship.

-- John Gray